Ladkiyon par atyachar

Bharat kitna bhi advance kyun na ho jaye lekin aaj bhi ladkiyon par anyay ho raha h har pal har roz. Aaj bhi ladkiyon ko har baat ke liye mana kiya jata hai. Unhe kaha jata hai ye mat karo ye tumharee liye nahi hai. Aisa karoge to tumse kaun shaadi karega?

Aaj bhi hamare desh mein choti choti ladkiyon ke saath galat kiya jata h. Unhe maara jata hai sirf isliye kyunki wo ek ladki hai. Ye kaam anpad hi nhi karte balki pade likhe log bhi karte hain wo ye nhi sochte ki ek ladka aapko dhokha de dega lekin ladki hamesha aapke sath rahegi.

Kitnin hi ladkiyan iske wajah se aaj bhi maari jati hain kyunki woe k ladki hai. Ek maa ko hamesha blame kiya jata hai ki tumne ladki kyun paida ki hai? Lekin wo ye nhi samjhte is mein ladki ka kabhi koi dosh nhi hota hai. Science ne bhi ye proof kiya hai ki iske liye ek ladka zimedar hota h.

Lekin aaj bhi kitni ladkiyan aisi hoti hain ki wo bhagwan se dua karti hain ki unke ladki na janmein kyunki wo janti hain agar aisa hoga to use bhi maar diya jayega. Lekin maarne wale kbhi ye nhi sochte ki jisko tum maar rahe ho usne hi tumhe banaya hai agar wo nahi hoti to ye duniya nahi hoti. Kaash har insaan aisa sochta to aaj ladkiyan bina kisi wajah se kam nahi ho rahi hoti……………..

Agar ladkiyon par atyachar kam kiya hota to aaj is masum ladki ki ye halat nhi hoti........

Roti hai aaj bhi maa meri, anchal me lapete yaado ko

                                      wo nanhi pari mere sapno ki, shobha bhi thi us angan ki,

ab aur saha na jata hai, maa ka yu aise tadap jana

                                      Ji krta hai kar du sab bhasm, in gande usoolo ka banna,

 kyu chhhayi hai ye kaali badli, mere ghar ke ujiyale par

                                      him hui hai har ek chingari, bujhe hai deepak ale par 

yu thak kar aya hu ghar par, ji krta hai ke sahta lu maa ki godi me jakr,

                                      ab uthta hu main sokr, ek nayi subh ke saaye me,

dekha hai aaj badalo ko, jaise ambar ki parchhayi,  

                                          hat chali hai wo badli kaali, jo jhuki thi mere angan me,

kal ki subh kuchh aur rhi, chhad paya hai aaj badlne ka, 

                                          hai bak pravah mera un uljhi hui badraho me,

rukh mod jara in raho se, chhad paya hai soch badlne ka,

                                         ab chhod sahare usoolo ke, bante hai jo jhuthe nazaro se,

ghat gaya jo ab aaj ek, ho jaye khi na hazaro me........................!

                                            

   

                                          

                                               

                            

              

 

                                  

khud kamao, dahej pe na jao.......

Dahej ka matlab hai, jab dhulan shaadi ke baad apni family se apne pati ke ghar ati hai to wo paisa, saaman lati hai.

Dahej lene ka riwaaj sabse pehle Europe, South Africa, South asia mein tha par pata nhi ye hamaare desh mein aaya. Lekin ab India mein ye pratha sabse zyada hai. Ye riwaaz pehle Upper class logon mein hota tha jab koi pita apni beti ko kuch gifts deta tha apne mann se lekin aaj kal to ye har pita ke liye majburi ban gayi hai.



Lekin aaj kal dahej pratha ek vinashkari roop dharan kar chuki hai. Ladkiyon ko pareshan karte hain maarte hain yahan tak kabhi kabhi unhe zinda jala dete hain ya zeher bhi de dete hain.



Ladkiyon ko ye sab jhelna padta hai agar wo ladke walon ki demand fulfill nhi kar pate hain. Hum bahut saari samajik buraiyan padhte hain lekin unko sudharne ke liye hum kya kadam uthate hain???????????

Bicharon Ko Badal Do Humhe To Insaan Hi Rhna Hai...!

Ye riste .....pyaar bhare riste, kahi to rah jati hai kamiyan. Kyo samajh nhi pate hum ya samjhte hi nhi.......!

Ye sawal kyo sawal hi rhta pasand kyo krta......! Aaj k is samaj ki adatein bhut hi khudgarj hoti ja rhi hai.......jrurat hai rukkar badalne ki.....!

rakho garv apne nek kaamo par magar kyo krte ho ghamand apne farz par....!

Apna sab achha aur jo dusre ka hai wo sayad kuchh to achh ho skta hai .........Nhi krta kosis ye aaj ka samaj.......!

Kabhi to lagta hai in bicharo ko badlne me jo waqt lagega wo to pralay se bhi jyada hai....!

Jo chahte bhi hai badalna wo kyo nhi badlte, samajik jrurto se khud ko bhi ek jrurt bana k chal dete hai samaj ki chal par......!

Samaj banaya kisne humne badata hai kisse humse........! Galat hum hai ye bichar nhi........! badal skte hai....ye gar hum chahe.......lekin hume insaan hi rhna hai............!

A girls life after marriage........

Ek ladki ki zindagi shaadi ke baad puri badal jati hai use ek aise insaan ke saath zindagi bitani hoti hai jise wo sirf kuch waqt pehle se hi jaanti hai. Use wo ghar chodhna padta hai jahan usne apna bachpan bitaya tha.

Lekin jahan wo jaati hai uski kabhi kadar nhi hoti hai. Ek ladka kabhi nhi samajh pata hai ki koi ladki apna sab kuch chodh kar uske paas aayi hai uski family ko apni family se bhi zyada apnaya hai, pyaar kiya hai. Jitna usne uske liye ya uski family ke liye kiya hai badle mein usko kya diya hai.

Har pal aansu, takleefein, taane kabhi use pal bhar ki khushi nhi deni chahi hai. Wo hamesha yeh bhul jaate hain ki jo wo us ladki ke saath kar rahe hain kal ko unki family mein bhi kisi aur ke saath bhi ho sakta hai.

Jitna pyar aap ladki ko doge uske badle mein usse zyada paoge. Hamesha ek ladki izazat karo chahe wo koi bhi ho. Kabhi use takleef mat do. Kbhi use maro mat, dahej ke liye force mat karo. Kyunki yehi sab aapki life mein aur uski life mein khushiyan layenge.

Maa..........

Maa, woh hoti hai jo khud jaagti h aur hamein sulati hai, apne aap bhukhi reh kar hamara pet bharti hai.

Har kadam par hamare saath rehti hai. Maa hamesha apne bachchon ki takleef samjhti hai chahe bachche bataye ya na bataye wo samajh jati hai ki uske bachche pareshan hain. Ek maa hi hai jo ek bachche ko apne andar 9 mahine rakhti hai saari takleefein sehti hai apne bachche ki har zarurat pura karti hai. Jitna pyar ek maa apne bachche se karti hai utna koi kisi se nhi karta hai. Tab bhi bachche uski bhawnaon ki kadar nhi karti hai aur na hi uska kadar karte hain. Use kuch nhi samjhte hain phir bhi agar unke bachchon takleef hoti hai wo unka saath deti hai.

Agar ladke ki shaadi ho jati hai to wo apni maa ko bhul jata hai sirf apni biwi ki baat sunta hai wo bhul jaata hai ki ye wohi maa hai jisne hamesha uska dhyan rakha hai jab usko zarurat rahi uske paas rahi hai...............

Aaj phir ek ladki ki life ke bare mein discuss kiya jar raha h. Ek ladki jisse pal pal takleef di jati h chahe wo uske parents ho chahe uska pati ya phir wo insane jisse wo pyar karti hai. Uski bas ye galti hoti hai ki woe k ladki hai. Kehne ko to ladki ab bahut aage hai phir bhi use har baar sita ki agni pariksha deni hoti hai.

Uske saath aisa behave kiya jata hai jaise usne koi gunah kiya hai ki woe k ladki h. Jab wo paida hoti hai to use maar diya jata hai. Ya phir agar uski shaadi ho jaati hai to use uska pati maarta hai kbhi dahej ke liye ya kbhi kisi aur wajah se.

Ek ladki par kab tak atyachar hota rahega kb use uska adhiakr milega. Agar ladki padhi likhi hai tab bhi us par julm kiya jata hai. Shaadi se pehle ladke aise behave karte hain jaise ki ladki ko kitni khushi denge har waqt uska saath denge lekin jb wo waqt aata hai to sabse pehle ladke hi use akela chodh dete hain wo yeh nhi sochte hain ki ek ladki apna ghar, apni family chodh kar tumhare ghar aayi hai ek aisi jagah jahan wo kisi ko nhi jaanti ek aise insaan ke paas jisse wo sab kuch maanti jiske family ko apna samjhti hai sirf isliye kyunki wo us ladke se judi hai uske liye sab kuch karti hai tab wo apni family mein ek mehmaan ke tarah reh jati hai.

Jab hum fere lete hain to bahut badi badi baatein karte hain, badi badi kasam lete hain. Lekin wo kasam kitne log nibhate hain ye koi nhi jaanta? Sirf ek ladki hai jo ye saare vachan nibhati hai. Ladke ki family ko apna samjhti hai.